Be here now!

Three innocuous little words that, if you pay them a little heed, can be an incredibly powerful force. Words that, among the myriad distractions of modern life, it’s all too easy to dismiss.

I remember the first time I heard them back in the mid-nineties. I’d just got a job as an IT project planner with Transco, the pipeline and distribution arm of the former British Gas. As part of a massive restructuring programme the company was sending all of its tens of thousands of employees on a training course called “You make the difference”.

It was one of those touchy-feely American things, all about the power of individuals to make a tangible contribution in business and in life, designed to boost morale, develop soft skills and, for the company, to ease the acceptance of organisational change.

Naturally enough most of us were pretty sceptical, and it’s fair to say, on reflection, that the course contained more than its fair share of feel-good bunkum. But it also got you out of work for a couple of days, was a lot of fun, made you turn the spotlight on yourself to reveal things you otherwise might never see, and, it has to be said, included a couple of real little gems.

“Be here now” was one of those gems.

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This photo was taken by my neighbours, Sue and...

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Published in the WOW! supplement of the Evening Echo.

Forget your Vietnamese pot-bellied pigs, your Andean chinchillas, your African pygmy hedgehogs and your North American chipmunks: apparently tiny Irish cattle are the latest en-vogue pet for forward-thinking families. Spurred on by high food prices and a growing desire to “get back to basics” on the nutrition front, people, it seems, are going gaga for miniature cows, and the most popular breed – the Dexter – hails from Ireland.

Pet cow with benefits

According to an article I read over the weekend, for anywhere between €250 and €2,500 (presumably depending on the pedigree) you can get yourself a mini food factory that stands no taller than a large dog, produces around 9 litres of milk every day, keeps your grass trimmed and will make a popular family pet for a few years before eventually filling your freezer with high-quality beef.

Families across the UK, it seems, are turning to Dexters, and launching themselves into very-small-scale farming. Registrations of the breed, which originated in the south of Ireland as the perfect “cottager’s” cow, have more than doubled since the millennium, according to the Dexter Cattle Society. But the traditional miniature breed isn’t having it all its own way; keen to jump on the miniature band wagon, people are busy creating miniature versions of other popular breeds, including the Mini-Hereford and Lowline-Angus.

A single Dexter cow will, in theory provide as much milk as a family can use, and a single calf each year that can then be grown on for meat. With concerns over the quality and health implications of intensively reared meats, and food prices heading skyward at an alarming rate, its easy to see why mini cows are catching on. I’ve no doubt the girls would love one, but I can think of a few downsides.

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Published in the WOW! supplement of the Evening Echo.

DSCN7248-1 “Dad, what are those white bits in your beard,” the little one asked me the other day. I rubbed my chin, thinking a few stray crumbs from the sandwich I’d eaten at lunch were lingering. “They’re still there,” she said helpfully. She disappeared, and returned moments later with a shaving mirror. “Look!”

I took the mirror, and realised she was talking about the grey highlights that peppered the otherwise dark brown hair. Even though I look at my beard every day, this close-up scrutiny revealed much more grey than I remembered. “They’re grey hairs,” I said to her. “They mean Daddy’s getting older.” She looked at me; you could almost see the cogs turning as she processed this information. “They’re in your hair too,” she said, and ran off to play with her sisters.

I sat there for a long moment, looking into the mirror, holding it this way and that, wondering when the occasional grey hair had turned into this epidemic. My hair was looking a bit on the scruffy side, which wasn’t helping matters, so I decided it was time for a hair cut. Out came the clippers, off came the hair. As it fell to the floor in small clumps I tried not to dwell on the fact that there were more grey flecks in it than usual. Was it real, or had the little one’s observations just sparked the onset of paranoia.

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Thanks to Walter at Sxoop for highlighting this priceless flow chart of chit chat with a web designer via Twitter.

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Sums it up nicely really. I’m a writer, not a designer, but as soon as anyone finds out I do some website stuff… or I’m in any way involved in internet related work, this is almost invariably the way the conversation pans out!

Does this resonate with anyone else out there?

Published in the WOW! supplement of the Evening Echo last Wednesday.

Photo Credit: Rain! by tanakawho

Raindrops keep falling It’s August already. One month will see the kids back in school… but the rain it keeps a falling! The buckets, spades, nets, balls, kites, fishing rods and all the other summer paraphernalia remain steadfastly in storage, untouched and unneeded.

I used to think we were lucky living down here in West Cork – making our home in a place where people choose to come on their holidays. This year, watching disheveled holiday makers trudging their way through the deluge, I’m not so sure. They, after all, are heading home to more clement weather, leaving us to weather West Cork’s unpredictable climate.

With rivers bursting their banks left, right and centre, Cork had the unenviable distinction of being the wettest part of the country for the month of July. The highest rainfall for the month since 1975 was recorded at the Cork airport monitoring station. Soggy, to say the least.

For parents rainy summers are tortuous. Wet weather is bad enough when the kids are at school, but when they’re home it can be particularly traumatic. One of the key parental survival strategies during the summer holidays is the ability to hunt the little devils out to play. It gives them… and perhaps more importantly, you… a bit of breathing space. With that option curtailed by the rain this year, everyone’s been stuck indoors, and it doesn’t take long before tempers start to fray and things go haywire with alarming rapidity.

It’s not just about being out of doors either. The weather affects everybody’s disposition. Bright, sunny skies tend to lighten the mood, while dark, sombre ones send it plummeting. Little wonder, then, that the children are proving difficult to manage this summer.

Planning things is impossible. Organising anything like barbecues, picnics or anything outdoor-related puts you at the mercy of our unpredictable and inhospitable climate. You always have to have a plan B, in case the heavens open. There’s no consistency; everything is spur of the moment – grabbing at fleeting opportunities to make the most of the sunshine while it lasts.

In other countries you’ll find predictably warm, fine summers, and crisp, cold winters. Here in Ireland we seem to occupy a perpetually soggy middle ground that offers none of the benefits of either. Sweden is a case in point.

You might expect the Swedes to have weather just as bad as ours. But not so. I was talking to my uncle recently, who’s spending a lot of his time over there these days. It was a scorching 34 degrees Celsius. When I spoke to him in March it was minus 15 degrees Celsius, and he’d just returned from a spot of cross country skiing through sun-dappled forest. Both times I looked out of the window in West Cork onto a vista of brooding clouds and driving rain. Depressing!

Surely we’re due a bit of a summer between now and when the girls go back to school. A few weeks of consistently fine weather, is that too much to ask? The beach gear is in the car, ready to go (alongside the wellies and the raincoats)… so come on sunshine, we’re ready for you. We don’t mind the occasional half-day of rain here and there, it helps to keep the verdant scenery at its best, but please, let’s have a bit of sunshine to see out the summer.

image Just a quick post this one.

Got an e-mail this morning from our publishers Kogan Page with a link to our new Digital Marketing book on their website.

I’m more excited than I thought I would be. Somehow seeing the book up on their website makes it all seem very real, and I just wanted to share it with everyone.

We’ll be launching a new website over the coming months to support, develop and build on the book. We’re hoping to build a dynamic and constantly evolving, community driven digital marketing resource. It should be quite an adventure… will keep you posted here and over on Digital Marketing Success.

This is the most popular image in our photo wedding invitation line up. It’s the photo that inspired the business, and the one that best captures what Image Invitations is all about.

Hanging out – a photograph that inspired a business

I know this isn’t a forum for commercial promotion, and that’s not the aim. I thought I’d share the image with you here on its own merit.

The teddies, which belong to my twin daughters, were hanging on my parents’ washing line in North Wales after a much needed “bath”. I took several images from a variety of angles… this was the one that stood out.

Published in the WOW! supplement of the Evening Echo

Image by Rev Dan Catt under the this CC license.

Fifth birthday cake There’s nothing particularly special about five. It’s just a number, nestled between four and six. There’s no real reason why five should take on any more significance than the numbers that precede or follow it, and yet somehow it does.

Five minutes, for example, tends to be a much more significant division of time than, say, 3 minutes or seven minutes. Why? Why do people tend to make five year plans, rather than three year ones? The most destructive tornadoes are ranked F-5 on the Fujita scale, and the worst hurricanes rate as category five on the Saffir-Simpson scale. Five, five, five!

Maybe it’s as simple as the fact that we have five digits on each hand and foot that leads us to lend more weight to the number. Who knows?

Some other distinctions enjoyed by the number five: it is the atomic number of boron, the number of books in the Torah, the number of times each day that muslims pray to Allah, the number of oceans in the world, the number of human senses (sight, sound, smell, touch and taste) and the number of vowels in the English alphabet, to list but a few.

Of course, when you’re four, with only a week to go until your birthday, five suddenly becomes a very significant number indeed. The little one had been hyper all week, planning her party, changing her mind about this detail or that. No boys, she’d decided… and no adults, except for Mum and Dad, she conceded.

“You two have to come,” she said, “someone has to make the food and mind all the kids.” Charming!

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